Wednesday, November 21, 2012

A Daily Life Snapshot: The Differences.


There are obvious differences in our life since arriving, especially in weather, language and culture.  The following are a few of the smaller differences in our daily lives.  I, Erin, thought to highlight these because inside our home it seems pretty similar to what our life might look like in the States, except for:
-A water pump we run daily to fill a roof top tank.  Without the pump, water from the city will not flow through our pipes.  Our roof top tank allows us to run the pump only periodically.  The biggest difference is in remembering to run the pump.  At least twice now we have run out of water from the roof top tank in the middle of a shower.  What do you do when you are all soapy, out of water, and the pump is outside?
-A water filter we use for all our drinking water, and I don't mean a refrigerator pitcher you fill with water.  It takes some time to fill a gallon container but it is pretty hands off unless you let it over flow (done this a couple times too).
- Our most common form of transportation is a taxi, so now everytime a horn honks outside Whitman says, “taxi here mom” even if it is just the nieghbors.
-3 out of 4 of us now own motorcycle helmets.  The majority of people ride motorcycles, so we often have the opportunity as well if just one or two of us are going some where. 

John and Caedmon off to run an errand (on a friend's bike)
Caedmon is so excited to have his own helmet

-No sinks in our bathrooms, nor a bath tub.  Our boys still are not fans of taking showers, too much water in the eyes, so we have improvised with a not quite large enough tub.

-Cold showers; taken twice daily and still really enjoying them.  We don’t have a hot water heater, but we can’t imagine using one in this weather.   
-Mosquito lotion is more commonly used then regular hand lotion: daily before going outside and before bed.
-Baby powder is used more now then ever before by our family as our boys seem to have endless heat rashes.  Upon first arriving I wondered why local kids, in the mornings, often have a dusting of white powder on their faces. 
We are thankful that these differences have now become part of our lives.  I hope many of the bigger, cultural differences will soon become second nature to us as well!

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

3 weddings, 1 week!

Last week began with a weekend trip outside the city for a wedding.  We attended another in the middle of the week, then ended the week with yet another.  Our trip outside the city was with some neighbors.  We stayed with their grandmother in a traditional 'platform' house and were introduced to the local wedding culture.  The most traditional weddings, often those outside the city, include three different events.  The first night is for the bride or groom, separately, and at their respective homes or relative's home. 
1st event, with just the bride
The second event, usually the following day, is the actual ceremony that joins the couple in marriage.  The last event is a reception, often the night of the ceremony or the next day. 
tent set up outside home for all the wedding events

table with many sweet treats to enjoy before the ceremony



How do you even begin to explain a wedding that is so very different.  Everything from the outside, observable features to all the underlying unobservable aspects.  For our first wedding of the week we arrived late, just to miss the whole ceremony, but apparently this was not a big deal.  The ceremony often is held inside the bride's family's house, where there isn't enough seating for all the guests.  So guests either sit outside the house and wait, or are connected to the ceremony by a speaker and microphone.
For the second wedding, the ceremony was held in the couple's religious prayer house.  The third wedding was different yet, as the ceremony was held at a reception hall.  This was also the first ceremony we actually were able to watch.  The ceremony in all cases takes place between the groom and the brides father.  After the ceremony the groom, now husband, goes to see his now wife in her bed room.  They then come out to greet the world as husband and wife. 
Ceremony between groom and bride's family



















Bride and Groom (3rd wedding attended) during reception
The reception is just as different.  For the whole time the couple sits upon the stage, standing to greet each guest as they walk by, then the couple sit again.  The guests on the other hand enjoy a buffet and often leave shortly after eating.  Therefore guests are coming to and going from the reception for hours. 
Bride and Groom (1st wedding attended) during the reception

We couldn't have arranged a more complete cultural experience ourselves, and all in a weeks time.  We learned so much and yet have only really scratched the surface of how marriage begins in this culture!