Monday, August 29, 2016

You know you live overseas when...


Skippy peanut butter is a real treat.  I, Erin, always tried to convince John we should only buy Adams peanut butter when we lived in the states.  I like the strong peanut flavor and especially the lack of added ingredients, namely sugar.  We are able, thankfully, to buy peanut butter here, but it comes in the smallest jars I’ve ever seen and with the added sugar.  Though Skippy too has added sugar, it was a nice treat the other day when John brought it home from the store… a taste of home. 

You could call it a 'travel size' jar of peanut butter. 
The jar is about 5oz.



You know you live overseas when…the answer to your husband’s question of, “Did you find ants in the rice?” was, “Only around the edges.”  I’ve gotten use to fishing bugs out of many of our food items, though it does still bother me occasionally.  I usually only do this with uncooked items and those not easily replaced.  So John was surprised when I answered him in this way with the cooked rice as it is so easy to come by here!

You know you live overseas when…you assume the itchy spot on your arm is a mosquito bite, then by the end of the day you are sure it is not, but unsure as to what it really is.  Thankfully it has not grown nor is it itchy anymore, but it is as red as ever.  Hopefully it is not another “Monster Inside of Us.” (see the May post)
A perfectly round red circle below my wrist; probably a bite, of some sort...?

It Took Two Years


Many aspects of life here in Barat just take more time as we lack many conveniences we are used to in the States.  Learning language and culture definitely takes time, but in some areas I still get surprised.  Our first year in Barat I didn’t use any beef in my cooking.  Finally, we discovered not only where to buy beef, but that we could also get it ground into hamburger.  I had a similar experience with chicken this week.  I usually buy a whole chicken once a week; it is slaughtered and chopped up while I wait.  It comes with the organs, neck, and all the meat on the bones.  A friend told me just last week, you can ask the butcher to take the meat off the bones, what a concept, I never thought this was possible.  Unfortunately, the first butcher I asked, just looked at me funny.  So this week I tried another butcher and I came home with the meat in one bag and the bones in another!  At first I thought of just pitching the bones, but I use chicken broth quite a bit, which I have to make from scratch, so the bones worked well for that yesterday.

The other incident that had not happened before, thankfully, was a semi-emergent visit to the local clinic.  We’ve visited the local clinic before, when Caedmon had an eye infection, to learn about malaria rates in Barat, and for a pregnancy check-up, but this time was different.  It was 9:30 in the morning, last Tuesday, when I received a call from one of Whitman’s teachers.  She informed me that she and Whitman where at the local clinic because he fell at school and split his chin open.  It was a small wound, but the nurses at the clinic recommended at least 2 stitches.  The teacher was calling because Whitman would not let them stitch him up without me or John there.  The phone conversation began with the teacher apologizing for bothering me.  Thankfully I was given a great deal of peace and enough of a level head to ask which clinic they were at before hanging up.  I proceeded to place sleeping Evangeline into the carrier, grabbed my own first aid kit, and set off.  I rode a mini-bus downtown, then found a Pedi-cab to take me to the clinic.  I probably could have ridden the mini-bus the whole way, but I wasn’t exactly sure where the clinic was and I was sure the Pedi-cab driver would know. 

I arrived at the clinic and was quickly greeted by Whitman’s teachers.  They led me to a small room where Whitman was laying on a stretcher looking tired and concerned, but not crying.  After getting the full story from the teachers, I looked at the wound, which was no more than a centimeter in length and not too deep.  I decided to just use steri-strips to keep the would closed.  I’m still not sure what the nurses, who would have done the stitching, or his teachers thought of this, but it was small and from shadowing nurses at a hospital in the big city, I assumed the needle which they were to use to be dull from multiple uses (well sterilized though).  Whitman was very happy to not get stiches and we left within a ½ hour of my arrival. 
Brave Whitman

Steri-stripped


On the way home Whitman related how a friend at school had pushed him while they were sitting to recite prayers.  He fell forward, but didn’t realize at first that he had an “owie.”  He said, “I curled up like an egg and cried.”  Then when he got up everyone saw blood.  Two of his teachers took him on a motorcycle to the clinic, without his helmet which he did have at school.  Whitman said, “Even the teachers didn’t wear helmets," and "I got a little blood on one of my teacher's shirts, so she had to change."  The rest of the day Whitman was himself, only twice saying, “I wish I didn’t have this owie on my chin.”

It was a very smooth experience, we are thankful Whitman is well, that we were called by his teachers, and that they took such good care of him.  One teacher even returned to the school only to be replaced at the clinic by a teacher to whom Whitman is closer with. 


Saturday, August 13, 2016

Baby Care - Cross Culturally


Evangeline is now 2 months old.  We are getting into a schedule and she is extending the hours she sleeps at night, reaching 8 hours twice.  She is also providing us with many opportunities to learn culture. 

Everyone in Barat, and in many other parts of this country, were very surprised that we would venture out of the house at first with such a small baby.  Most people here do not go out before the baby is 40 days old.  Granted, Evangeline did take her first airplane ride at only 3 days old making her a unique case even by U.S. standards.  Occasionally I, Erin, will go out with Evangeline to a neighborhood shop or to visit a friend.  People are worried she may get sick because she usually is without a hat.  At first we would take her outside in just a onesie, but due to people’s comments, we began wrapping her in a light blanket.  We have always worked by the principal that infants are best dressed with one addition layer than what we would be comfortable in.  In this climate I would be comfortable in nothing, so I figure Evangeline is fine in just a onesie.  The Barat people on the other hand think babies should be all wrapped up, including socks, mittens, and a hat, especially when outside. 

Some of the things we are seen doing have been met with comments such as, “I didn’t know you could do that,” or “Our parents always told us not to do that.”  This frequently occurs when we hold Evangeline in an upright position.  They hold their babies horizontally for at least a couple months as they fear for the safety of the baby’s head.  One friend told us that is could cause the child to become a hunch back. 

Mostly for small talk, people frequently ask me if I am breastfeeding and if we use a hammock.  All babies here are placed in a type of hammock hung on springs, then bounced to sooth and put to sleep.  It is used much in the same way baby swings are in the U.S. are, except there is nothing automatic about them, causing someone to always be tugging on the hammock to keep the baby bouncing. 

A few other differences we have learned are that many people do not use diapers, of any kind, for the first couple months.  One man mentioned chafing, where as another friend mentioned the remains of the umbilical cord as reasons.  Most baby girls get their ears pierced almost immediately.  Once neighbor told me I should make sure to get it done before her ear lobes become hard.   Every time there is a visitor to meet our new baby and congratulate us, they always bring a gift.  Gifts have consisted of clothes, mostly brightly patterned dresses, soap for us and Evangeline, and pillows.
 
Gifts
Not sure what to do with all the pillows!

Evangeline being weighed at a local clinic.
Yes, that is her in the sack.


Most of these differences are easy to just nod, smile at, and agree that yes we do things differently.  There have been a couple differences that are more difficult for me.  One, is that everyone wants to touch Evangeline, mostly on her face.  The second is even people who are sick, or very recently sick, will come to visit.  One lady with a cold and a girl who had a fever the night before came to visit.  Then a neighbor we all call ‘grandma’ came to chat with us while we were outside.  She proceeds to tells us all of how she has had diarrhea since the night before, all the while holding Evangeline’s hand.  These times it is ok to be a little more forward and tell people it is not ok to hold or touch her. 
All in all I am so thankful for Evangeline’s continued health and growth.

We also just celebrated Caedmon's 8th birthday.  Blessed by another year with Caedmon!
We started with cinnamon rolls before school.


We made a piñata.
Whitman taking a turn.

Caedmon's turn

Caedmon wanted vanilla and strawberry cake.
We ate cake with neighbors after the piñata broke.

Getting so big!