Thursday, October 4, 2012

The grass is ALWAYS green on the other side!


A common belief in the States is: Tan is Beautiful.   People will lay out in the sun for hours to become darker or spend money on one of many alternative methods to achieve darker skin.  There are even special swim suits that allow the sun to darken the skin it covers.  This is not the case here.  Almost every beauty product, lotion, make-up, and even deoderant, advertises ‘whitening properties.’  People here cover up under the sun; carrying umbrellas or putting on jackets when going out into the 90 degree weather.  We have yet to see any locals laying out on the beach, yet we live in a coastal city.  As most locals desire lighter skin, like ours, I (Erin) find myself still desiring darker skin like theirs. 

In another area of life: the traditional style toilet here is a ‘squat toilet.’ These are common in homes and many public places.  ‘Sit’ toilets have become common now a days too, but the ‘squat toilet’ is the most familiar and often more comfortable for locals.  In public restrooms are often accompanied by signs clearifying how they should be used. 
A tutor of ours moved rental homes because her first rental place didn’t have a ‘squat toilet,’ which was preferred by her parents when they visited.  I recently came across an aritcle about a new product out in the States, a special stool that fits tightly around the toilet replicating the squating position used with a ‘squat toilet.’  Apparently people don’t know there are plenty of ‘squat toilets’ still in production and for sale here.  It sounds like a new wave in the States; people choosing the squating position instead of sitting.  I wish I could jump on that band wagon as I have more then enough opportunities here.  I find my cultural upbringing is still too strong within me as I still like a nice tan and choose a ‘sit toilet’ over any other. 
With all this to say it just strikes me how people almost half the world apart still want what the other has, even if they don’t realize it.